Relationship

Relationship can be a wonderful thing…and yet it can be a hurtful thing.

Comprimization, communication is a must to make a relationship works.

Men says women is complicated, and always a living contradict…and women hates men that is undecidives and can’t give the sense of security (yup…sense of security is VERY important to a women, no matter she’s a career women or not!)

Women has become more and more independent. becoming the “macho-macho” women!

anways…i’m always the person who sits and listened to the problems/ issues my friends are facing in his or her relationship. hehe..having the privillege to hear from what the guy have to say, and consoling a girl on what to do.

one of my guy friend has been in an ups and downs relatioship for almost 7 years. he said that he has been “abused” in terms of money and dignity. he then said that he won’t marry this girl but yet he will not break up with her unless she break the relationship. simply because, the girl said that she will commit suicide if he does. but then again, the girl told him that he is only a “water-fish”/ “floater” for the time being until she finds another men. (HUH??…wat the?!)

there i was…listening to his story for 7 years. i was like..how stupid can u be??? or why you have to be such “gentlemen”?! since the day he whine about his relationship (yes…guys do whine!). It’s sad there are still people who abuses relationship…i think that’s why people go for same sex relationship. haha..but i hope my friend will emerged from this relationship soon. than seeing him gay. 🙂

but end of the day, if this is what he wants, he have to accept all the flaws and be happy.

another story is about one of my girl friend who is facing some issues in her relationship as well. This guy she has been dating is 4 years younger than her. 2 years into their relationship, she burst out. she says she can’t take being with him cause he can’t give her the sense of security and this guy is a follower than a decision maker. but even after they break off, she can’t stand seeing him with another girl. (hmmmm….) at the end of the day, both of them are back together now..but prefer the relationship to be communicate through smses.

every relationship goes through different path. end of the day..is all about communication, trust, ultimately to stay as “friends forever”

 

 

it’s not good to have a credit card

i realised that by owning a credit card, it will actually increase the expenditure on unnessary stuff. I used to have a little savings when i dun have a credit card. I tend to think more rasionally on my purchases. but with credit card, it became an irrational impromptu purchases! (especially when u’re a woman)

do you face the same problem?

yeh…we eventually will “own” more stuff…at the same time.. we “owe” a lot too!

I just called my bank and asked them what is the retail interest charges they charged me. i was curious with the charges as i know they will only start charging after 20 days from the transaction date. little did i realised that the 20 days comes faster than i can ever imagine!

Sigh..not good not good.

1 credit card is more than enough. and i have to tell myself is only for “Emergency” use.

1) Petrol

2) Phone Bill

3) Insurance

4) utility bill

no more shopping! no more shopping! no more shopping!